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Beth
Sadly, while this story is remarkable, the writing is not. Susan Ray Schmidt's account of her life as part of Colonia LeBaron, plural-wife to one of the infamous LeBaron brothers, has all the elements of a juicy memoir. She is right in the midst of the warring fundamentalist polygamist communities, and her time with the LeBarons spans some fascinating, night, real-life stories. Unfortunately, Schmidt tends to quickly gloss over the more interesting historical incidents and spend a good deal of ti Sadly, while this story is remarkable, the writing is not. Susan Ray Schmidt'due south business relationship of her life as part of Colonia LeBaron, plural-wife to one of the infamous LeBaron brothers, has all the elements of a juicy memoir. She is right in the midst of the warring fundamentalist polygamist communities, and her time with the LeBarons spans some fascinating, dark, real-life stories. Unfortunately, Schmidt tends to quickly gloss over the more interesting historical incidents and spend a expert deal of time on minutia. While the personal elements can certainly strengthen a narrative and "within look," but in this case it seems unbalanced: too picayune story, too much repetitive inner monologue. ...more
Melanie
Mar 15, 2008 rated it information technology was amazing
I really enjoyed this book. From the minute I opened information technology upwardly I could not put it down. I stayed up mode too late at dark because I wanted to encounter what was going to happen adjacent. I would often find myself just thinking about this girl and her life and was eager until I could sit down side by side and read what was going to happen.
The style the Author, Susan Ray Schmidt, portrayed the life of polygamy was amazing. I took away an understand of why polygamy is of import to the fundamentalist Mormon people, and und
I really enjoyed this volume. From the infinitesimal I opened information technology up I could not put information technology down. I stayed up way too belatedly at night considering I wanted to encounter what was going to happen next. I would often find myself but thinking about this daughter and her life and was eager until I could sit next and read what was going to happen.
The fashion the Author, Susan Ray Schmidt, portrayed the life of polygamy was amazing. I took abroad an understand of why polygamy is important to the fundamentalist Mormon people, and understand how easy information technology is to manipulate a young daughter, and others, into assertive this is the right life to alive to get into heaven. The amount of brainwashing there was is amazing. I tin not fathom the thought of sharing my husband with several other women. I tin can not imagine existence married and having children at the age of 15 for my religion. This volume really opened my eyes to the corruption of the fundamentalist Mormon Church. And to know that this is even so going on is unbelievable.
I would highly recommend this book to anyone that can't grasp the idea of polygamy or sympathise why women choose this lifestyle. I would recommend this volume to anyone who would like to larn about different lifestyles and who is looking for a book they don't want to put down.
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Patti
The starting time 100 pages are extremely uncomfortable. Susan takes y'all back to the mindset of an innocent 14 year old daughter and it reads like my inferior loftier diary total of "Does he like me? Practise I like him?" The main divergence is, though, that the boys that are flirting and winking at Susan are actually grown men, old enough to be her father, and are doing information technology in the company of their current wives.

It is amazing to read about these women who are continually neglected and left to fend for themselves in, fi

The outset 100 pages are extremely uncomfortable. Susan takes you dorsum to the mindset of an innocent 14 year old girl and it reads similar my inferior high diary full of "Does he similar me? Exercise I like him?" The primary departure is, though, that the boys that are flirting and winking at Susan are actually grown men, old plenty to be her father, and are doing it in the visitor of their current wives.

It is amazing to read virtually these women who are continually neglected and left to fend for themselves in, fighting over time with their wayward husbands and treating them like royalty. Their stories drew me in. Susan was bravely transparent when describing the emotions involved with beingness a plural life. It would be insane watching your hubby engagement another adult female while you could barely make ends come across!

When Susan was finally ready to recollect for herself and question her situation, I felt so proud and relieved for her. It takes a lot to go from where she started and achieve the conclusions she came to. 25 years old and vi kids? I can't imagine.

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Ashley Hoopes
This is the truthful story of a woman's feel of being the "favorite married woman" of her fundamentalist mormon polygamist hubby. It was pretty eye opening for me to run across what information technology's like to live in a fundamentalist customs with religious leaders who claim to be receiving personal revelation from God on a daily ground, especially when the majority of their revelation has to do with which fourteen yr quondam God has commanded them to marry.

This darling girl was a true believer who would do whatever was asked of her

This is the truthful story of a adult female'due south feel of existence the "favorite wife" of her fundamentalist mormon polygamist husband. It was pretty eye opening for me to see what it's similar to live in a fundamentalist community with religious leaders who claim to be receiving personal revelation from God on a daily basis, peculiarly when the bulk of their revelation has to do with which 14 year old God has allowable them to ally.

This darling girl was a true laic who would exercise any was asked of her past her Prophet and her religious leaders. She is very candid and exposes her true feelings of falling in honey with the older, charismatic religious leader. She is smitten by all the attention and amore that she craves as a teenager.

Once she is married, life quickly changes and she sees the reality of what her life volition exist similar-being one of many wives (more than she realized at the begining of her union), living in poverty, dealing with the jealousy and infighting of the other wives, while trying to brand sense of the isolation and loneliness that she feels.

The pictures lonely, of her with her babies, and all the other young wives with their many babies, are jaw dropping. She is a survivor and tells this amazing story with compassion and honesty. I highly recommend this book.

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Heather
Dec 12, 2007 rated information technology really liked it
His Favorite Married woman: Trapped in Polygamy fascinated and repulsed me, a combination that makes for a compelling read. Knowing the volume tells a truthful story drove the fascination/repulsion. I am interested in reading one of the other books the writer lists in the epilogue to learn more.

About the book: Susan Ray Schmidt is a descriptive writer. I was there with her in the colonies through her anguish and gratitude. I felt her love and anger and turmoil.

While I admit that the book is but i persp

His Favorite Wife: Trapped in Polygamy fascinated and repulsed me, a combination that makes for a compelling read. Knowing the book tells a truthful story drove the fascination/repulsion. I am interested in reading one of the other books the author lists in the epilogue to learn more.

About the book: Susan Ray Schmidt is a descriptive writer. I was at that place with her in the colonies through her anguish and gratitude. I felt her love and anger and turmoil.

While I acknowledge that the volume is but ane perspective (hers), I think she is fair in her descriptions and leaves room for me as the reader to come up to my own conclusions. I practise not feel bullied or manipulated into that understanding. It seemed like Susan'due south descriptions showed me how life was rather than telling me what to call up virtually it. I could draw my own conclusions. Not until the final chapter do I feel Susan added some of her own assay and opinions of the life in which she had been immersed as she started to look dorsum. Before that, considering her descriptions were in the present, I liked reading what was in her mind at the fourth dimension that led her to make whatever present conclusion was at hand, to get married, to bite her natural language or to say something, or to visit one person or some other.

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Kate
I wanted to educate myself to the world of Polygamy. This is a true story about a group of Mormons who bankrupt abroad from the church in Utah in the early 70's and went to United mexican states to beginning a cult chosen The Lambs of God. The book did get on an on sometimes, but I looked everything upwards and all of it was true. Story about 14 year old Susanna Ray who was married at the age of xiv to someone at least xx years older. She was his fifth married woman. Past the fourth dimension she was 23 with 5 kids her husband was on Wife No. 12 wi I wanted to educate myself to the world of Polygamy. This is a true story about a group of Mormons who bankrupt away from the church in Utah in the early 70'south and went to Mexico to offset a cult called The Lambs of God. The book did get on an on sometimes, but I looked everything up and all of it was truthful. Story about 14 twelvemonth old Susanna Ray who was married at the age of 14 to someone at least 20 years older. She was his fifth wife. By the time she was 23 with 5 kids her husband was on Married woman No. 12 with a total of around 59 kids. This is an account of what it was similar - severe poverty, left to take care of yourselfs on around 20 dollars a week with the other sister-wifes. Eventually her husband Verlan LeBaron and his brother, Ervil, were at odds and it all ended up in many murders and family members killing family members. Susan came to her senses at age 24 and ran away to Utah with her 6 kids. What a way of life!!!! I suggest y'all read information technology although it does ramble nigh the same things at times. ...more
Kartika
I don't know a lot about polygamy. I know a little more at present. What I did know before reading this book is that it the lifestyle didn't interest me, all the same information technology did make me wonder. Having read this account, I know this gal couldn't have tolerated the experience. Non for anything. I constitute tho, that I may exist interested in reading a book by Susan Schmidt's sister wife, Irene, as it would give a different bespeak of view of the same situation from one of the sisters that I idea was portrayed every bit a stro I don't know a lot about polygamy. I know a little more now. What I did know before reading this volume is that information technology the lifestyle didn't interest me, however it did brand me wonder. Having read this account, I know this gal couldn't have tolerated the feel. Not for anything. I found tho, that I may be interested in reading a volume by Susan Schmidt'due south sis wife, Irene, as it would give a different point of view of the same situation from one of the sisters that I thought was portrayed as a stiff, only at the same time dependent, woman. ...more
Jennifer
Sep 04, 2011 rated it actually liked it
I really came beyond this book sitting on a tabular array - picked information technology up to kill some time and couldn't put it down until I was washed. As a Mormon I was intrigued past this group of people who have broken away from my faith, using the same scriptures, but who believe and interpret them very differently than I practice (and by the way, spoiler alert - Mormon's are not polygamists, so if you think we are y'all need to educate yourselves. I likewise exercise not have horns or a tail, in example you were wondering). In a fashion thi I actually came across this volume sitting on a tabular array - picked it upward to kill some fourth dimension and couldn't put it down until I was done. As a Mormon I was intrigued past this group of people who accept broken away from my faith, using the same scriptures, only who believe and interpret them very differently than I do (and past the way, spoiler alert - Mormon's are not polygamists, so if you think we are y'all need to educate yourselves. I as well do not have horns or a tail, in example you were wondering). In a way this is a tragic dear story and at the same fourth dimension it is a story of organized religion, cede, and the journey nosotros all must go through to make up one's mind what we believe independent of our family unit and society. The story is so well written that it is hard for me to believe that Susan is a first time writer who had very little formal instruction equally a child. At historic period 15 Susan marries a leader in the Church of the Commencement Built-in, Verlan LaBaron a man some 26 years her senior with v other wives. The story takes you through her journey of sacrifice, abandonment, and religious disharmonize. I cannot fifty-fifty imagine the abiding sacrifice and heartbreak that she and her sister-wives went through in an attempt to achieve eternal glory, only for her to find she had lost her faith in the Church itself. The story also discusses, although not in great detail, the fracturing of the Church building equally one brother, Ervil LeBaron, tries to accept control of the Church an actually enacts "blood atonment" by killing those in opposition to him. Although publicly the story of Ervil is one people recognize, it was Susan'southward story that compelled me. I enjoyed her perspective on the scriptures, its references for or against polygamy, and why the people of her erstwhile faith believe as they do. I cannot judge these people, they are living in a way that they believe is necessary for eternal life with their Heavenly Male parent, and people will sacrifice much to return to heaven in celebrity. Having said that, the cruelity of the lifestyle, although unintented, and the tremendous neglect and abuse of the families is heartbreaking. I hope that as Susan states in the Epiloge, that she has truly found life subsequently polygamy and that all of her seven children have as well. Information technology is a humbling book. ...more
Kavita
Sep 27, 2014 rated it liked information technology
His Favorite Wife: Trapped in Polygamy is the fictionalised memoir of Susan Ray Schmidt, who escaped from the polygamous cult and made a new life for herself. This volume offers a detailed and intimate portrayal of her personal life in a polygamous marriage, the cult'southward inner workings, and the entire drama surrounding Ervil Lebaron's murder spree.

Commencement, let me become the quality of writing out of the way kickoff. I was not looking for bookish level perfection, but the writing was bad by any standards.

His Favorite Wife: Trapped in Polygamy is the fictionalised memoir of Susan Ray Schmidt, who escaped from the polygamous cult and made a new life for herself. This volume offers a detailed and intimate portrayal of her personal life in a polygamous marriage, the cult's inner workings, and the entire drama surrounding Ervil Lebaron's murder spree.

First, let me get the quality of writing out of the way offset. I was not looking for academic level perfection, just the writing was bad by any standards. The volume is riddled with punctuation and grammatical errors. Much of the writing was a complete fake of spoken English, rather than written language. The author could also have done with a crash class on the use of adverbs. The abundance of 'real proficient's and 'real bad's only annoyed me a lot. I realise that this was written past a woman with very lilliputian educational activity, but that'due south what publishers and editors are there for! I really do non enjoy wading into a book with a blood-red pen, but that is what I was doing throughout this book – mentally correcting the grammar.

Susan Ray gives united states an inside look into the workings of the Church of the Firstborn. At the age of fifteen, she has a 'revelation' from God in a dream, falls in 'dear' with a homo former enough to exist her father and agrees to marry him as his sixth wife. As the truthful hardships of a polygamous marriage slowly dawns upon Susan, the church building itself is being split apart, all culminating in several murders, prosecutions and divorces.

It was just when I finished the book did I realise that in spite of the problems with the book, the content itself was fascinating and had kept me hooked. I enjoyed reading about Susan and her family, the personal way in which she described the church and its functions, and the interrelationships between the people with whom she associated. Raw emotions spilled out over the pages and actually draws yous into the story. Information technology was interesting to run across a basically loving family unit beingness split autonomously considering of polygamy. I had always read nigh abused and controlled wives, but Verlan was not of their number. He loved his wives, his wives loved each other, only information technology never resulted in the family ever becoming one unit of measurement.

The narrative basically sticks to the author'southward own experiences, and so it does not delve as well deep into the murders committed by Evril Lebaron and his followers. I would have liked reading more most it. I likewise want to know more than well-nigh Verlan's 'accident', which was only fleetingly touched upon. Another thing that leaves a sense of incompleteness is that the author does not really describe her struggles subsequently she moves out of polygamy. She all of a sudden just gets married and is perfectly happy. Off-white plenty just it would have been interesting to encounter how she fared from the time she left Verlan to the time she met Denis.

I just loved the bibliography of books to read on this subject field, that she provided at the finish. A good read, merely keep the carmine pen out!

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Margaret
Interesting perspective from the 6th wife of fundamentalist polygamist, Verlan LeBaron. Susan Ray Schmidt's book was intriguing and definitely a fun read. From reading two accounts from the wives of LeBaron, I was able to glimpse into the horrific world of polygamy. I had no idea the lifestyle entails poverty, loneliness, intense jealousies and rivalries. Susan ultimately becomes a Christian afterward leaving the church; in this case, Church building of the Firstborn of the Fullness of Times, a rouge Mormon Interesting perspective from the sixth married woman of fundamentalist polygamist, Verlan LeBaron. Susan Ray Schmidt'southward book was intriguing and definitely a fun read. From reading two accounts from the wives of LeBaron, I was able to glimpse into the horrific world of polygamy. I had no idea the lifestyle entails poverty, loneliness, intense jealousies and rivalries. Susan ultimately becomes a Christian after leaving the church; in this instance, Church of the Firstborn of the Fullness of Times, a rouge Mormon cult. ...more
Korey
3.v stars. I prefer the Irene Spencer accounts of the LeBaron highjinks simply this was all the same a expert read. The prose was nothing special but the story itself is super interesting. Mormon fundamentalist compounds are endlessly fascinating to me, and the LeBaron were i of the craziest.
Michelle Robinson
I had a hard time staying engaged with this narrative. I don't know if information technology is because I have read several books on this subject affair, the writing (which wasn't awful), or just considering I was totally disgusted by Verlan and Ervil LeBaron's predatory fashion of "courting" these underaged girls. It just turned my stomach, equally a mother of girls, I but felt so strongly that they were being groomed by pedophiles. Ugh, information technology was really hard for me to read all of the stuff that led upwardly to her "marriage" and if I had a hard time staying engaged with this narrative. I don't know if information technology is because I have read several books on this discipline matter, the writing (which wasn't awful), or but because I was totally disgusted past Verlan and Ervil LeBaron's predatory way of "courting" these underaged girls. It just turned my stomach, as a female parent of girls, I just felt and then strongly that they were being clean-cut by pedophiles. Ugh, it was really hard for me to read all of the stuff that led up to her "marriage" and if the fashion she described being treated by Verlan was even half true, I do not understand why he felt the need to marry her or whatsoever other "brides"? But warehousing all of these women makes little to no sense.

When one is confronted by the abject poverty these poor children had to live in, I was just overwhelmed.

I also got really tired of all of the church building jargon. Information technology fabricated me want to just give up. I appreciate it being at that place because that is what I chose to read the book for, an insider'southward feel but it got to exist a lot.

I really appreciated her epilogue. I had googled several people'south names to try to become an thought of what might have happened to them after the time period that the book covered.

This was a hard read for me. The ick factor was really loftier, for me. I felt so sorry for her and for the other child, polygamous brides and their children. o spend your life in squalor because of some sketchy religious beliefs is hard to fathom.

Again, this volume took me longer to read than what is normal, for me. I cannot pinpoint exactly why. I am glad I read this book, it added to my knowledge of people who actually lived this lifestyle.

I would recommend this to others.

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Jameya
I thought this volume was slap-up. Very well-written, engaging, honest and generally fascinating. I don't know HOW this woman was able to recall do much, simply she did s helluva job bringing information technology all together and actually really making it feel like it was all happening to yous! The story was so shocking in do many ways but amazing to know it'south all truthful!

The final matter is, I felt this book to be So good and interesting that I've already lined upward at least five more than merely like it om my "to read" list. I reall

I thought this book was great. Very well-written, engaging, honest and generally fascinating. I don't know HOW this woman was able to recall exercise much, but she did southward helluva job bringing it all together and actually really making it experience similar it was all happening to you! The story was then shocking in practice many ways but amazing to know it's all true!

The final thing is, I felt this volume to be SO good and interesting that I've already lined up at to the lowest degree 5 more merely like it om my "to read" list. I really promise they turn out to be just as good, if non better.

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Dayna
October 28, 2007 rated it information technology was amazing
Despite the small font and cramped text on the pages, this book was crawly - I read it night and twenty-four hour period until the last page. The author's start-person account of life in a polygamous group in Mexico was eye-opening in that it truly evoked the feelings of the author and drew me into what she was feeling equally she survived her lifetime ordeal. Like a few other first-person accounts I've read recently, this is not a piece of literature by whatever means, simply is an unforgettable business relationship well worth reading. Despite the small font and cramped text on the pages, this book was awesome - I read it nighttime and day until the last page. The author's first-person account of life in a polygamous group in United mexican states was eye-opening in that it truly evoked the feelings of the writer and drew me into what she was feeling as she survived her lifetime ordeal. Like a few other first-person accounts I've read recently, this is not a piece of literature past any means, but is an unforgettable account well worth reading. ...more than
Krista
Jun x, 2008 rated it really liked it
I thought it was an interesting book about the polygamous sect without a lot of physical abuse that some of the other polygamous take had in it. I found it sad that the hubby really did non desire annihilation to exercise with his children. He did really seem to simply exist interested in the intimate relationship from his wives. His family was living in astringent poverty. I was really surprised that none of them were seriously ill.
Lataun
Aug 01, 2008 rated information technology liked information technology
Very interesting. Made me think about how easy it is to grow up and believe things because that's all yous've ever known. And how courageous this woman was to question things and make a change on her ain with 5 little kids. It had a lot of topics for discussion. Very interesting. Fabricated me think about how easy it is to abound up and believe things because that's all you've ever known. And how courageous this woman was to question things and brand a change on her own with 5 little kids. It had a lot of topics for discussion. ...more
Elise
Very long read and written in a very historic/textbook style, merely it's a fascinating history. It'southward a little hard to read, in that y'all want to smack the author, just it'south extremely interesting. I've looked into a few other books just so I can learn more about this bizarre culture. Very long read and written in a very historic/textbook style, simply it's a fascinating history. Information technology'southward a little difficult to read, in that yous want to smack the author, merely it'south extremely interesting. I've looked into a few other books just so I tin can larn more about this bizarre culture. ...more
Michelle lowe
Oct 11, 2008 rated information technology it was astonishing
This was a very practiced book. It explains a lot of polygamy from the eyes of a wife.
Patty Boone
Idea the story was very interesting. I have a friend that grew up in this cult. I'm completely intrigued past the lifestyle and escape from the cult. Thought the story was very interesting. I have a friend that grew upward in this cult. I'm completely intrigued by the lifestyle and escape from the cult. ...more
Shannon
This kind of dragged in the centre for me, simply I'm glad I finished the book. Very interesting history of some crazy people!!
Melissa
January 26, 2011 rated it really liked it
*Possible spoilers, but this is non-fiction.*

This was an interesting book. Information technology offered a very dissimilar perspective from the other books on polygamy that I'd read.

Susan is a young girl growing upward in a polygamous customs in United mexican states. She is very treasured by her family and when she as a dream at fourteen that reveals to her the identity of her future husband, it is readily accepted by all. So much in fact, that she marries him a year later. The man is Varlan, the blood brother of the prophet of their se

*Possible spoilers, but this is non-fiction.*

This was an interesting book. It offered a very different perspective from the other books on polygamy that I'd read.

Susan is a young girl growing upwards in a polygamous community in Mexico. She is very treasured by her family unit and when she as a dream at fourteen that reveals to her the identity of her future married man, it is readily accepted by all. And so much in fact, that she marries him a yr later. The human being is Varlan, the brother of the prophet of their sect. He already has five wives, simply so charms Susan that she believes it is God'due south will that she marry him. His brother tries to go her for himself only she eventually sees how insidious he actually is and goes with Verlan instead.

The rest of the book deals with her hardships of being a multiple married woman and just her struggles in living as well. Verlan is not able to properly care for his large family and ofttimes the family lacks food, decent lodging, and good dress. Not helping this is the fact that a couple babies are built-in every year adding to the mouths to feed. Susan herself goes on to have v before she even reaches her mid-twenties.

This book had an interesting perspective because for the majority of the fourth dimension Susan liked her religion and being a polygamous married woman. Sure she didn't like sharing all the fourth dimension simply when it came downward to it she did believe in the lifestyle. Information technology wasn't until a scrap after when she had had several kids already that she started to become disillusioned. A lot of that likewise I think stemmed from the hardships she was living and the poverty.

There is i thing that I kind of wondered about though. The subtitle of the book is Trapped in Polygamy, just actually, compared to some of the other stories I've read, Susan was able to get out very easy once she fabricated upward her mind to do it. She was delayed by pregnancy a couple times but when she truly wanted out, there were no death threats, no trouble with local law, her husband finally accustomed. It was a lot unlike than some of the women who take tried to escape those types of relationships in the United States. I'thou not downplaying her struggles, but it amazes me that being in a different land fifty-fifty it still wasn't that difficult for her to get out.

The volume does end on a skillful note with her leaving. She as well thoughtfully includes a affiliate that lets u.s.a. know where the residuum of the sect is and how they ended up. It is interesting to note that a lot of Verlan's wives concluded up leaving. Once once more, a fascinating discipline and I'm sure I'll be hitting the books to observe out more than on the topic.

His Favorite Wife: Trapped in Polygamy
Copyright 2006
418 pages plus a photograph album

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Andrew
Apr x, 2015 rated it liked information technology
Betwixt what I've previously read, every bit well as what I've seen in tv set coverage, much of what is disclosed in here about live in a polygamous marriage was already somewhat familiar to me. It is clear that polygamy, as practiced by the fundamentalist sects that have separated from the mainline Mormon church, is rife with neglect, exploitation, and outright abuse. In many (if not most) cases, the men are merely incapable of providing sufficient material or monetary back up for their plural wiv Between what I've previously read, likewise equally what I've seen in television coverage, much of what is disclosed in here about live in a polygamous marriage was already somewhat familiar to me. It is clear that polygamy, equally practiced past the fundamentalist sects that have separated from the mainline Mormon church building, is rife with neglect, exploitation, and outright abuse. In many (if non about) cases, the men are simply incapable of providing sufficient textile or monetary support for their plural wives and families, and the demands of these wives and families stretches the commitments of the men far past any reasonable breaking point. I suspect that many women remain in these relationships simply because of a troubling combination of indoctrination, lack of teaching, and intimidation.

This book is an heart witness account of the realities of life in such a polygamous community. The writer was raised in this environment and chose to get the sixth wife of one of the leaders of her church, a man one-time enough to be her father. While the validity of her choice might be questioned based on her age, the author doesn't spend much time questioning that selection, simply instead describes her life as a young, plural wife and female parent, along with her eventual disillusionment with the doctrine of polygamy, and finally her escape from the community. For those who are unfamiliar with the details of this do, this account is likely to be both centre opening and agonizing.

For me, though, the more interesting part of this volume was the description of the internal conflict inside the customs and the violence that erupted from it. This polygamist sect was, essentially, a cult of personality, built on ane family'south claim to divine revelation. Much of the church'south influence rested upon the personality of their 'prophet', who is portrayed here as being a sympathetic character, who mostly used his position with care and business organisation for others. However, his brother is portrayed as power-hungry and ultimately unbalanced, eventually leading to a interruption in the customs and a violent series of murders. It is a fascinating look into the dynamics of a community congenital upon the ability of personality, and what can happen in such a community when those who control it go self-absorbed and desperate for total control.

A search on the cyberspace seems to show the events described in this book as being largely corroborated by other sources, which makes boosts the credibility of the residuum of the contents, so that this becomes a powerful witness to the ugly realities of plural matrimony.

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Shana
Oct 21, 2014 rated information technology really liked it  · review of some other edition
Recommends it for: People who love polygamy
Recommended to Shana by: Found at Powell'southward in Portland
I don't know what it is virtually polygamy that makes me want to read every volume that's ever been written nearly it. Well-nigh of these books are pretty fascinating and this one did not disappoint. However, this is non a story near escaping from polygamy then much every bit it is about growing up in polygamy, coming of age in polygamy, marrying an older guy, beingness i of many wives, having a bunch of kids, living in poor conditions and and then escaping from polygamy. (Sorry, I hope no i considers that "spoilers." I don't know what it is about polygamy that makes me want to read every book that's ever been written about it. Well-nigh of these books are pretty fascinating and this ane did not disappoint. All the same, this is not a story virtually escaping from polygamy so much as information technology is about growing up in polygamy, coming of age in polygamy, marrying an older guy, being one of many wives, having a bunch of kids, living in poor weather and then escaping from polygamy. (Sorry, I promise no one considers that "spoilers." Simply it IS a book virtually escaping polygamy, so a lot of that shouldn't have surprised you.) What makes this even more interesting is that the polygamous group Susan is involved with is run by these brothers who, I'grand merely going to come out and say it, accept some very terrible names. (Alma, Verlan and Ervil? Are these sounds the mother made while giving nascence? And seriously, how tin you name a child Ervil and not await him to turn out Evil? You're just asking for it. Merely I digress.) Then Ervil is in fact evil (Evil Ervil...say information technology iii times fast!) and basically breaks away from the residue of the group and starts going around killing people. (Too not a spoiler because in that location was a TV flick about it with Brian Dennehy, which I am now fervently hoping that Lifetime Movie Network reruns because I'm not certain if I've seen it or not.) So basically, there'due south a lot of crazy sh*t going on and one time yous get past the first fifty pages (which are kind of slow) it'south pretty much impossible to put down. So skim the beginning 50 pages and and so acknowledge to yourself that you lot're never going to become any of the things done that you meant to do this weekend because you're going to be reading this book. ...more
Jordan
Nov 22, 2014 rated information technology really liked it
I must be sick because I am drawn to these books almost polygamy, unusual families, and unconventional life styles. They fascinate me, and I am able to peek into a globe (from a safe distance, of course) that I would never know otherwise. Susan is raised in a community where polygamy a normal occurrence, a living prophet exists, and the citizens don't seem to realize the poverty they live in.

The writing here is not going to impress anyone, but Susan's story is well told. Unlike the LDS church, wo

I must exist sick because I am fatigued to these books about polygamy, unusual families, and unconventional life styles. They fascinate me, and I am able to peek into a world (from a safe altitude, of class) that I would never know otherwise. Susan is raised in a community where polygamy a normal occurrence, a living prophet exists, and the citizens don't seem to realize the poverty they live in.

The writing here is not going to print anyone, but Susan's story is well told. Dissimilar the LDS church building, woman of the Church of the Firstborn don't seem to suffer the same type of physical abuse. They're neglected in many ways, just seem to have a footling bit of say in their own lives. Susan was a very young bride to one of the leaders of the church.

Somewhen, Susan's brother-in-law decides there are things their organized religion is missing - specifically claret atonement. This creates a terrifying time for the church members, and leaves several dead or wounded. This was a difficult book to put down. It's fascinating to read, but may also make readers thankful that they are not living in the same civilization.

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Jessica Padgett
This book is difficult to pivot downward. It gives you a lot to think most and how she ever put it into words I tin can't even fathom. The lives of Joel LeBaron's followers, specifically the authors really puts into perspective how low religious fanaticism can go. Well-nigh people don't think of Christians as having terrorists and murderers in their midst but this book makes you realize that those beliefs are wrong. Ervil LeBaron was a terrorist and a murderer. He may not have e'er dirtied his ain hands with the a This book is difficult to pin down. Information technology gives y'all a lot to recollect about and how she e'er put it into words I can't even fathom. The lives of Joel LeBaron'due south followers, specifically the authors actually puts into perspective how depression religious fanaticism can go. Most people don't recall of Christians every bit having terrorists and murderers in their midst just this book makes you lot realize that those beliefs are wrong. Ervil LeBaron was a terrorist and a murderer. He may not have ever dirtied his ain hands with the actual killings merely he most certainly was guilty of leading those expert people astray for his ain personal desires and greed. The author seems certain that polygamy was a major part of the church's problem (not just Ervil) and that information technology strayed as well far from what she considered being a good christian once she took it upon herself to read the texts they were supposed to be living by and yet weren't. All in all, a very idea provoking book. I am grateful I was never put into a position like that and I was gratis to make my ain decisions and establish my own opinions in regards to family and religion. Who knows where I would have ended up. ...more
Wesley
Very interesting story of a young woman growing up in a Mexican fundamentalist Mormon community. I found Susan Ray to exist a fantastic narrator; not the best writer but non awful either. She slowly unwinds the history of the LeBaron clan's attempts to convert the masses and the eventual inner turmoil/philosophical differences that grew from them. Susan Ray's story plays out like an sick-conceived soap opera - romance, murder, polygamy, extreme poverty and contrasting wealth, exotic locations, sever Very interesting story of a young woman growing up in a Mexican fundamentalist Mormon community. I found Susan Ray to be a fantastic narrator; not the best author but not atrocious either. She slowly unwinds the history of the LeBaron clan's attempts to convert the masses and the eventual inner turmoil/philosophical differences that grew from them. Susan Ray'southward story plays out similar an ill-conceived lather opera - romance, murder, polygamy, extreme poverty and contrasting wealth, exotic locations, several piano interludes and a agonizing amount of statutory rape. Merely information technology'southward non a lather opera, it really happened.

(view spoiler)[I was fascinated by her attachment to her husband Verlan, a Church leader who continually tests her willpower. Favorite Wife was a thoughtful investigation of a adult female'south journey towards spiritual/personal/emotional self-discovery, and her ultimate withdrawal from the Church.

I may even check out Irene's volume about her experiences as Verlan's wife and Susan's sis-wife. (hibernate spoiler)]

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angela
Ooh the first two thirds of this book had me really riled up, but I was always rooting for Susan. It was quite interesting to read most a community I knew very petty about. If all you knew- your whole family and community- were buying into a sure way of life and you were expected to do the aforementioned when yous came of age, it would only seem normal to you. Of course I'chiliad looking at it through my ain cultural lens, only it's hard to exist open-minded about grown men taking new teenagers as their wives eastward Ooh the get-go 2 thirds of this book had me really riled up, only I was e'er rooting for Susan. It was quite interesting to read about a community I knew very footling almost. If all you knew- your whole family unit and community- were buying into a certain way of life and you were expected to do the same when you came of age, it would just seem normal to you. Of course I'g looking at it through my own cultural lens, but it's hard to be open up-minded near grown men taking new teenagers as their wives every yr, impregnating them, and then having them live in squalor with their other wives. Fifty-fifty though Susan was frequently aroused with her hubby and grew apart from him, there was still a basic level of respect she showed him, fifty-fifty when talking about the bad times. Overall, it was quite interesting. And thank God I wasn't built-in into that religion. ...more
Marnie
I have never really understood the ins/out of polygamy, due to simply hearing the bad things. This novel opens up other stories of how the women accept everyday struggle themselves being a sister wife of many, living in poverty,sexual abuse to minors, and also the dangers of someone who is power hungry and non out for the the education of the bible. I am so glad that the author was able to discover lord again, and to sympathise that she could yet live a christian life without having to exist a function of politician I take never actually understood the ins/out of polygamy, due to simply hearing the bad things. This novel opens upward other stories of how the women take everyday struggle themselves beingness a sister wife of many, living in poverty,sexual abuse to minors, and also the dangers of someone who is power hungry and not out for the the teaching of the bible. I am and so glad that the author was able to find lord over again, and to understand that she could however live a christian life without having to be a part of polygamy. Information technology breaks my heart that from what I practise know, that women do non have a better teaching to the bible and are raised to believe that the simply manner to make it to heaven is to be just 1 of many wives to a single human. Funny how even trying to sympathize the circle of polygamy on the tv prove sis wives, that they really dont show the true struggles. ...more
Ange
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My sis in constabulary recommended this book to me and I am glad that I read it. It's the all-time book I accept read that REALLY gives you a feel for what information technology would exist like to to alive in a community that practices polygamy, or to be in a polygamous marriage. The author'due south story is fascinating, filled with the kind of drama that but existent life can produce. I was interested to know where the author is at in regards to faith at present. From what I can gather on her website, information technology appears she might be Christian but north My sister in police recommended this volume to me and I am glad that I read it. Information technology'southward the best volume I have read that Really gives you a feel for what information technology would be like to to live in a community that practices polygamy, or to exist in a polygamous marriage. The author'southward story is fascinating, filled with the kind of drama that only real life tin produce. I was interested to know where the author is at in regards to religion now. From what I tin can assemble on her website, it appears she might exist Christian simply not LDS (I'1000 guessing though) and no longer believes in whatsoever of the fundamentalist LDS doctrine also. An interesting account that certainly makes me sympathetic to those who alive within this kind of civilization. ...more
Beth McLaughlin
Worth reading if y'all are interested in the mindset of the FLDS people. The creep-factor is VERY loftier, so if yous can't read stories about perverts and children, y'all'll want to put the book down and slowly dorsum abroad.
Most of the time information technology felt like I was reading a novel or fictionalized business relationship, maybe due to the mode of writing. So when I got to the pages that had photos of the actual characters in the book I was taken ashamed.
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Worth reading if you are interested in the mindset of the FLDS people. The creep-factor is VERY high, so if you can't read stories nearly perverts and children, you'll desire to put the book down and slowly back away.
Most of the fourth dimension information technology felt like I was reading a novel or fictionalized account, perchance due to the style of writing. And so when I got to the pages that had photos of the bodily characters in the volume I was taken aback.
If you liked the Selma Greene plot line from the HBO series Big Honey, you'll detect this fascinating.
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Susan Ray Schmidt is an American writer, activist and lecturer, notable for her memoir and anti-polygamy activism.

Schmidt'southward memoir, Favorite Married woman: Escape from Polygamy, describes the abuses she suffered while practicing polygamy and adopts a firm anti-polygamy stance. Information technology details leaving Mormon fundamentalism for mainstream Christianity and her behavior on spirituality.

Susan Ray Schmidt is an American author, activist and lecturer, notable for her memoir and anti-polygamy activism.

Schmidt's memoir, Favorite Wife: Escape from Polygamy, describes the abuses she suffered while practicing polygamy and adopts a house anti-polygamy stance. It details leaving Mormon fundamentalism for mainstream Christianity and her beliefs on spirituality.

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